written by Sophie B. Hawkins

produced by Stephen Lipson

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An American singer with a normally typical British first name... not

to be outdone, Sophie B.’s middle name is Ballantine. She became a

professional pop singer around the early ’90s, during which time

she signed with legendary, ageless label Columbia Records—a

division of CBS until right around this time, 1991-ish, from which time Columbia and all other CBS labels would be distributed through Sony Music. Sophie’s debut album, 1992’s Tongues And Tails, gave birth to and led off with the biggest hit of her career—at least charting-wise—“Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover.” (...Not to punctuation-police you or anything now, Sophe, but... should there not be a comma in there?... Maybe an exclamation point if you were feeling particularly enthusiastic?)

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Her 1994 sophomore album Whaler rivaled Tongues And Tails for the source of her biggest hit. Though Whaler’s opening single, “Right Beside You,” did fairly okay, its follow-up “Don’t Don’t Tell Me No” stalled. But right around the corner from there, Whaler single #3, “As I Lay Me Down” was just waiting to make a splash. It became “Damn/Lover”’s biggest contender for most beloved Hawkins hit. And though it did not chart quite as high, it since surpassed “Damn/Lover” in terms of airplay and acclaim. It’s been featured in, for instance, A-list ’90s series like Dawson’s Creek and Party Of Five. She wrote the song in memory of her dad. Matching its tone, most of the video is a pleasant, tame romp with nature.

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